The Power of Staying Home: Aging with Familiarity, Comfort, and Connection
Michael has always marched to the beat of his own drum.
Known for his independent spirit, Michael has spent much of his life doing things his own way. Some days, he enjoys being surrounded by the people who know him best. Other days, he prefers a quieter pace, relaxing in his recliner and gazing out the window of the Sunshine home he has known for years.
Today, Michael is living with dementia.
Like many adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities, Michael faces unique challenges as he ages. Individuals with developmental disabilities are at an increased risk of developing dementia. For people with Down syndrome, the risk is especially significant, with approximately half developing Alzheimer's disease by their 60s, according to the Alzheimer's Association.
For Michael, support begins with something simple, yet powerful: remaining in the place he calls home.
Why Staying Home Matters
At Sunshine, we believe every person deserves the opportunity to age with dignity, familiarity, and the support of those who know them best. For Michael, that means remaining in the home where he has built relationships, established routines, and created a lifetime of memories.
As his needs have changed, Sunshine has adapted alongside him by modifying supports, adjusting care approaches, and providing additional services when needed, all while preserving the stability and continuity that are so important for someone living with dementia.
"Michael's familiar environment plays a critical role in his comfort and emotional well-being," said Holli Stetten, Chief Program Officer. "Remaining in the home he has known for years allows him to maintain important routines, relationships, and a sense of security as his needs evolve."
For individuals living with dementia, familiar surroundings often reduce anxiety, increase comfort, and help preserve a sense of identity. The sights, sounds, faces, and routines that may seem ordinary to others can provide reassurance during moments of confusion or uncertainty.
The Power of Relationships
The people around Michael understand that small moments matter.
His roommate, Jonathan, often calls out, "Mike!" from across the house simply because he knows Michael enjoys hearing his name. Staff encourage Michael to participate in daily activities as independently as possible, offering support when needed while helping him maintain a sense of purpose and accomplishment.
Every success is celebrated, and one phrase Michael never seems to tire of hearing is, "Great job, Mike."
According to Stephanie Jones, a longtime Direct Support Professional in the home, familiar relationships continue to create meaningful moments of joy.
One afternoon, Jonathan began singing along to one of Michael's favorite music videos. Michael looked over, smiled, and started rubbing his hands together—a gesture staff have come to recognize as a sign of happiness. Another roommate, Josh, joined in, and for a few moments the room was filled with music, laughter, and connection.
It may have seemed like a small moment, but for those who know Michael, it was a powerful reminder that relationships continue to shine through, even as dementia changes other parts of life.
Consistency Creates Confidence
As Michael's needs continue to change, consistency remains one of the most important forms of support.
"Staff consistency is incredibly important," Stetten said. "The people who know Michael best understand his routines, recognize subtle changes, and know how to support him in ways that help him feel comfortable and secure."
The staff who support Michael each day know his preferences, recognize his nonverbal cues, and understand what brings him comfort. They know when he needs encouragement, when he needs patience, and when he simply needs someone to sit beside him.
Sometimes reassurance comes through a familiar voice. Sometimes it is a smile, a favorite song, or a shared memory. These moments may seem simple, but they help Michael remain connected to the people and experiences that matter most.
"Supporting someone through aging and dementia requires patience, flexibility, and deep relationships," said Kevon Hawkins. "Our team continues to meet Michael where he is each day while celebrating the moments of joy that still shine through."
A Commitment That Lasts a Lifetime
While dementia has changed many aspects of Michael's life, it has not changed who he is.
He is still the independent, spirited person who has spent years building relationships, making memories, and living life on his own terms. He is still surrounded by people who know him, care about him, and are committed to walking alongside him through every stage of life.
At Sunshine, supporting people as they age is about more than meeting medical needs. It is about preserving dignity, honoring lifelong relationships, and creating opportunities for comfort, connection, and belonging.
Because home is more than a place. It is the people who know your story, celebrate who you are, and remain by your side through every chapter of life.